So how many of us have hosted a baby shower and felt obligated to include a cheesy baby shower game? You know, one of those that usually humiliates the guests and the mom-to-be? Something like “guess how many toilet paper squares it takes to wrap around mom’s belly.” Yeh, you know the ones. Well here’s a few creative alternatives to the rescue!
IDEA #1: A Little Encouragement Goes A Long Way
I was watching Oprah several weeks ago and it was one of her ‘Favorite Things’ episodes. Usually she gives away an obscene amount of free stuff to the audience, but because of the economy, she was introducing ‘thrifty’ gift ideas. Anyway, she was talking about how (years ago) one of her producers had asked each member of the staff to write down what they liked about working at Harpo. They collected all the notes, put them in a simple box and gave them to Oprah as a gift. It was something she still cherished years and years later. Inexpensive but priceless.
That really struck a cord with me. I’m a sucker for sentiment. And then it hit me — baby showers! And after some brainstorming and staying true to my love for vintage, I came up with these: Baby Silhouette Encouragement Cards for the New Mom — now available exclusively at The Baby Gardner.
How to Play:
- Pass these out to each guest as they arrive at the baby shower. Ask each of them to write a special message of encouragement for the new mom.
- Collect all the cards towards the end of the shower. Place them back in the coordinating archival envelope.
- Present the envelope to the new mom as a final gift and watch the tears flow! Allow her to read each one aloud if she likes.
Of course, you could always adapt this idea using your own card design (please don’t copy ours). Either way, you’re looking at a great alternative to the same old baby shower games and you’re giving the new mom something she’s sure to cherish for years to come!

IDEA #2: When Will Her Water Break?
Can’t take credit for this clever game, but it’s one of my favorites. And of course I love the fact that the little babies give it a vintage twist.
How to Play:
- The night before the shower, fill ice cube trays with water (one cube per guest) and place a baby (available in packs by Wilton) in each slot. [Bonus: Make extra baby cubes to place in the punch bowl as an added touch.]
- Pop cubes out right before the shower and place one baby ice cube in each drinking glass. Distribute a glass to each guest and point out their impending ‘birth’. Tell them it has to be a natural birth. No biting the ice!
- The first to ‘deliver’ a baby floating freely in their glass wins a door prize!
IDEA #3: No Thanks Necessary

Here’s another great baby shower ‘game’ that actually gives a helping hand to the mom-to-be.
How to Play:
- Purchase thank-you cards for the guest of honor before the shower. May we suggest a few vintage-inspired choices at The Baby Gardner?
- At the shower, give each guest an envelope (those that came with the thank-you cards) and ask them to write their name on the envelope.
- Collect all the envelopes and place them in a bowl. Draw one name/envelope to win a handsome door prize.
- After the shower, give the thank-you cards and envelopes to the mom-to-be. She’ll have a helpful head start on her thank-you notes.